Wednesday, May 30, 2007

TRUST

Had a really too many flows of thoughts which I just wanted to note it somewhere immediatley, and thought to update here ,as blog is just a personal class, where variables are declared as public:).
'Trust' is such a dangerous word which cannot be used very easily. Read somewhere its more valuable to have trustworthy friends than loving friends, one who is reading can get surprised whats this philosophy, but personally i feel so. And also "I trust you" is a better word of expressing your care than "I like you/ love you" or anything else(again, I feel so).
Got a chance to meet many philosophers in my life- the ones who used to sit beside me where i used to spend most of the time had been my great philosopers(not my father/brother or any one).
Anyone can be of two types- having full trust on everybody(trustworthy network) / dont have any trust on others(non trustworthy network). totally confused???? I am also;).
Anyways..these are few quotes which I just loved to read again and again
"I've learnt that it takes years
to build up trust and it only takes
suspicion, not proof ,to destroy it"

"TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation"

Last one,(I wont make you feel bored further)
"It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
It is better to be cheated than to be a cheat.
It is better to have suffered the wrong than to have done the wrong.
Bitter yesterdays create a better tomorrow because of the maturity gained out of those experiences" - and this is derived from a column called awakening of a magazine which i read called frozen thoughts and tell you this is the column which changed my attitude alot.
ofcourse its true that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."- the perfect truth - may be I have the same attitude but started thinking in this way only after reading that :).

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Down the memory lane

statutory warning : this post can kill you with boredome, read it at ur risk.
It happened to be day of EAMCET results today.Until I heard from one of my collegues that their relative got so and so rank in EAMCET I didnt come to know at all that today is the D-Day for almost 2lakhs +2 kids:).
Now a days there are no news updates at all, not at all refering to news paper ,unless looking for the theatres where so and so movie is being played on a particular day - or at max for latest movie reviews-pathetic situation right?sometimes we just go for movies without reading these reviews also;)(atleast why should we waste that time also).
coming to the point, hearing the word EAMCET I was so excited , everything is still fresh in my mind. Our plannings, weekend grand test,first time hostel stay,missing parents though they are just 2kilometers away:),tensions which seemed to be the biggest panics in life,only few sleepless nights;) , most important thing greatest life lectures from teachers,ahhhh....what all..those are not really sweet memories , very hard times but the result was sugariest just because of god's grace, parents' support and my tough lecturers advices.
Still remember all the teachers' care for our doubts, mark fluctuations in the exams conducted locally on very topic and our motivational sessions with seniors.
I can say those where the best days in my life, not just that I have succeeded but I have met the expectations of many ppl.
Still remember this day 6years ago, the happiness and the smile and proud in my dad's eyes towards me, that feeling has never repeated again, want to do anything to see that happiness in my parents' eyes again:))).
The words of my dad which I used to always made fun of "hardwork never kills anybody,you will get results some or other day and ur duty is just to do ur work" became the perfect axiom on the same day 6years ago.
I know that this page will be never visited by my parents or my teachers, but I just wanted to say very very big thank you (i know that this is not enough) without whom I would be no where.